I had a meeting with my little girl’s teacher and some of the staff at her school the other day. She is having some issues academically and socially and the point of the meeting was to compare notes on her behavior in school, home, and everywhere in between.
One thing that was important to me, was to make sure her school was clear that they were not just meeting with her parent. They were meeting with her team.
I had both my mother, a former employee with the state educators’ association, and my cousin, an educator who tutored my daughter over the summer, join the call. They were both able to offer information and ask questions that I wouldn’t have known to ask.
It did something to me to see the screen filled with older white women on their end. To be able to have just as many educated Black women on my side speaking on my daughter’s behalf filled my heart with joy.
It is so important that these schools, and the world in general, knows that my babies specifically, and our babies in general, have people in their corner rooting them on and ready to defend them at all costs. They need to know that our children are protected and loved.
If you haven’t already, craft an educational team for your child. These should be people who have your same goals in mind as it pertains to your child’s education. Include them on whatever plans you have to improve your child’s skills so that when your children are not with you, there will not be a lapse in their progress.